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Small Gardens you can manage easily!

Small Gardens

I know that a lot of you do not have large yards and want to do something to make them distinctive and easy to maintain.

A cactus garden is easy, especially to maintain, and pretty. All it takes is a small patch of land or a planter box, a few cacti you like. I get mine at Home Depot as they always have a great variety. You will want a few decorative garden stones and maybe a few you have dug up in your yard.

Always stay well hydrated when you are outdoors. I like to mix 7/8 water and 1/8 Ocean Spray Light /50 Cran-Raspberry Juice to make it more interesting. I find that this helps me drink more and outdoors it is really important. Of course you do not have to use a Baccarat Harmony glass … but I like to treat myself!

Drink water

 

I put in my cactus garden last year and it is mostly something you change every year, as they do not always survive the winter in certain zone regions. In Atlanta we are in zone 8 and that is pretty good but the cactus mostly did not enjoy the five minutes of winter that we get here.

The photos you are seeing are the clearing of last year’s ‘crop’ and preparing the space for a new exciting one.

I had to first remove all of the stones I used last year and I will wash them off before replacing them in the new garden.

2 Dirty stones

3 Washed stones

Pull out any leaf debris that gathered over the winter and put it in a mulch pile to use another time.

1 Cleaning out the cactus garden

 

Use potting soil for flowers and plants to mix in with your yard soil. I like Miracle Grow at Home Depot. It has all of the nutrients your plants will need and save you the guesswork. Soften your soil with water if it is very difficult to dig in. Remove about 1/2 of that soil and put it somewhere. You will replace it with plants and potting soil.

Next you need to plan the garden. You will want a few tall things and some short and a few fluffy ones to make the garden interesting.

4 Cactus garden planning

 

 

Place your new plants in their containers to see how it looks. At this point you can keep moving them until you discover a pattern you like.

6 Planning the placement

 

Next dig the holes of the biggest plants you will use. It is so much easier to place the smaller ones later.

5 Digging the holes

If you do not like the placement it is OK to unseat them and put them on another order.

I like to use a pretty potted cactus variety that Home Depot has plenty of. You might like to have it in the house for the winter and use it another way next season. I dig a hole almost as deep as the planter and burry it. I will pull it out in the fall and wash the container off and use it in my house.

4 Cactus garden planning8 Using pots that can go into the house in the winter

 

Place the stones so that they overlap and fill in leaving no holes.

9 Placing the stones

Now look and admire your work. As you see I have found some larger stones in my yard and I am using them as a border between the cacti and the rest of the garden to delineate it as a special little oasis.

 

10 FinishedCactus Garden

Ah Ha! Finished! Pretty, right? And you can do this easily yourself.

 

 

If you have enough yard or perhaps even a large yard you can fill in around your cactus garden to expand the exoticness you have begun.

 

11 Filling in behind the cactus garden

 

 

In my case I used some tropical looking plants like elephant ears in several colors plus a few Peonies.

12 Cactus garden and beyond

 

I saw a great empty space from something  that did not survive last winter and  knew just what to do.

13 Good place for a banana tree

 

I added a banana tree because I placed one last year in my zone 8 temperature and it came back. So now I will have two.

14 New banana

 

 

 

 

 

Another good idea is a ’Table Garden’. You may have an outdoor table that you do not need or use or maybe one that is old. You can always buy something inexpensive. I have a glass top on a wicker box that was meant to use as an outdoor coffee table that I do not need. I change it up every year for fun and variety.

 

 

My last season table with empty pots. I will buy a few more for fun to mix it all up.

Table garden before

 

 

My table garden after.

Table Garden

Finished with this part of gardening for this week. I hope that has been helpful.

Watch for my new Blog format coming soon where my posts will be organized into categories so you can follow which ever ones you like.

And feel free to ask questions on all of them.

 

A review of Alex Ekman’s US Premiere of “Midsummer’s Night Dream” Chicago, April 27,2018

“Midsummer night is not long, but it sets many cradles to rock.” An old Swedish proverb.

 

Writing a short review of two hours of one man’s dream that morphs into hallucination would not do justice to the brilliance of Alex Ekman’s stunning re-imagination, more of a renewal, of Midsummer Night’s Dream.

 

As I took my seat in the fourth row center of Chicago’s Auditorium Theatre I was confronted with a rustic iron single bed painted white cradling a handsome sleeping man, feet out of the covers, head tucked away in his slumber. Who knows how long this sleep has overtaken him before the anxious Joffrey Ballet audience began to fill the theatre…and fill it they did to standing room.

 

 

Two small spots resting on the stage floor on the audience right skimmed under the bed throwing the first of Ekman’s creative shadows laterally across the floor projecting the raw frame to repeat on the wall. An imaginary alarm sounds and a hand reaches out of the eiderdown in an unsuccessful search to silence the unwanted awakening.

 

The curtain parts and a woman, his wife perhaps, maybe a friend enters carrying his clothes. She is dressed in a pale gray London Fog that had great gobs of freshly cut hay spilling almost to the floor from both low and generous pockets. He dresses in his gabardine slacks and untucked cotton shirt, unbuttoned as he sleepily follows his walker to a rapidly rising curtain. I was a captive already as I was presented with at least forty dancers in a great field of cut hay tossing it high gyrating, spinning, rolling, and undulating in mounds and mounds of hay. There were at least ten layers of dancers all the way to the rear of the giant stage celebrating in a frenzied orgy of this golden remnant of what had taken months sowing from seed on Sweden’s farms. Great bales of hay littered the foreground and backgrounds.

 

A hidden Chicago Symphony Orchestra plays the haunting strains of Mikael Karlsson, Ekman’s go-to composer, led by Conductor, Scott Speck as members of a Swedish percussionist with a few other unusualt instruments played on in shadow of a lightless backstage.

 

The sleeper joins in with immense joy that goes on for five short minutes. A voice is heard but not seen and one thinks it is a recording until this tiny creature in a long blonde wig gathered into a thick braid that touches the floor begins to moves in and through the dancers who appear to have drank the cool aide.

 

Anna Von Haaswolff’s mournful sounds, a mix of doom metal, progressive and pop rock defines the mythical mood of this un-Shakespearian workaday her voice projects;

“They cheered and they toasted

To youth and to life

 

They danced ‘til the morning

They drank and took flight”

 

Ekman’s brilliant use of light brought to life by lighting designer, Linus Spelbom, arriving from unusual sources touches even the edges of loose hay. It should be said here that Ekman’s has his hands on every aspect of his work including his own set design and his collaboration with artists and designers to ensure his work is displayed exactly as he has seen it inside his creative mind. The dancers are highlighted in a way that they appear in shadow from one side and landing upon their arms and legs as they rise to await the arrival of what appears to be a straw covered ankh lowering onto the proscenium in tribute to the midsummer, like a may pole. There are a dozen or so great rolls of harvested hay stacked in several configurations. The celebrants begin to roll this hay about the stage and up to the hanging effigy. Some dance around and some dance on the rolls. Everyone divides into couples and sensually slow dance with exaggerated contortions including one very sexy masculine same-sex duet.

 

The dream evolves as dancers disappear and reappear dressed in gabardine suit jackets, the girls sultry movements is expressed in the now familiar gabardine. They are in shirtwaist capped sleeved dresses that touch the knees and move with the fluidity this fabric is known to do.

 

Suddenly the core begins assembling a very long table, long enough to seat them all for the upcoming feast. Tables are draped in wrinkled old gray-toned cloths that spill onto the floor haphazardly. Chairs are placed and dancers moving now about the stage, many carrying lit candelabra move to the feast table to secure the subdued light for the celebration.

 

Others had taken the stage pushing industrial sweeping brooms clearing the hay to a back corner as the soloist continues her dirge.

 

“The sun stayed above

The moon lingered under

 

By morning the dancers

Will start to wonder”

 

Toast after toast of a Swedish liqueur is tossed back until everyone is drunk to the point of confusion and disorientation. They begin dancing wildly but in a very slow motion as if in a dream or in fact the hallucinations that are all experiencing. Clothes begin to drop away as one male with perfect muscled cheeks is down to his tail shirt not able to sufficiently cover his nakedness. His dance belt is impossible to discern at any point. Like being on acid trip all of the dancers find different meaning to their individual trips and they scatter to four winds as the curtain slowly begins to fall and the sleeper returns to his bed.

 

End of act one.

 

Everyone in this audience with an A-class of understanding of this level of work needed a break to recover and prepare for what might be to come.

 

Intermission is always interesting because they need by now to express to each other their thoughts and excitement. I believe that is great builders of anticipation for the second act that always make me sad at the end because I need to see more.

 

 

Act Two

 

The man in the small bed is once again disturbed unhappily by the distant alarm. He rises in unison with the heavy drape that has separated us from the festival. It is now much later in the night, still dark as his bed rises to the high dark sky in the right back corner and the long dining table miraculously lifts from one end, people scattered upon it, dropping off as it rises. A lone tourist wielding an old Canon camera is suspended, floating, taking photos of the melee as more revelers find themselves falling through the dark humid air to the hard earth below, landing in silent heaps.

 

“Had it all been a dream

Had it all been a blunder

 

And who was that foreign girl

With a song made in thunder”

 

At the low end of the ruined table stand two headless men in the same pale gray suits conversing in pantomime, nodding and gesturing. They begin to move slowly, very slowly to making their eerie ways weaving about the field littered with passed-out weary indulgers.

 

Dancers begin making their ways back to the fold clad only in sheer nude underwear moving incredibly slowly to a mystical percussion. One line formed from each side of the stage to begin moving towards one another and to circumvent the stage. The thought-to-be permanent proscenium rises exposing all of the backstage workings and fly’s. Eight couples sail into individual and differently choreographed pas de Deux each having their separate moments, nothing to do with others. The two lines of nakedly clad people advance one line towards the other until they slowly crash into one another, not stopping until the were caught in a crush.

Ekman is known for his use of sounds and he did not disappoint. There were lots of high yelps, words and tongue clucks that kept us engaged.

 

A nude baker wearing nothing but a white apron and exaggerated toque darts in, around and out stomping en pointe with a hysterical cadence like a five-gaited show horse. He titillated the audience with his nakedness never making us privy to more than his exposed buttocks and then only in flashes.

 

“They hoped for a name

They hoped for a promise

 

That someone to love them

Would still walk among us”

 

All of the nude seekers began to disburse following their own patterns, swirling, romping and moving in and out of consciousness, wildly happy having found their nirvana.

 

The curtain falls slowly as we say goodbye, as the end has come.

 

The sated audience rose to their feet in wild applause and shouts of approval and were then forced to take their leave to contemplate this extravaganza on their own.

 

 

 

Dining out!

Dining out with friends does not have to be work. In fact, dining with friends is another reason to get together to celebrate new and developed friendships sometimes mixing in new friends in hopes all of you find enough in common to create new relationships.

And let’s face it. It is not the restaurant or food that brings us together. It is the camaraderie first and food second. The expenditure is for the entertainment you have chosen for the night. Separate checks for working adults is uncouth and annoying.

There are times when one may not feel they want to spend money dining out. Simply do not accept the invitation. And there are times where your group may institute sepearate checks in advance.

There is nothing worse than the friend who constantly avoids paying for something or alowing one of the other s buy his or her drinks or to share their appetizers.

Some people, and they will not be included often, find the need to show their power over waiters. They will ask inane questions about the wine list first. If good wine is important to you then you probably already know what you like . Interrogating a waiter or worse, a Sommelier, about ten different wines shows lack of understanding about wine in the first place. Let’s say you are in an Italian restaurant. They are not going to have big Bordeaux’s or Cabernet Sauvignon’s . Pretty easy to let your server know your preferences in another style and let them suggest something along the same lines. How tedious it is when one of the guests or couples annoy the waiter asking to sample three whites and three reds before making a choice. Think about it. Three samples equal one glass. That is downright cheap and show-off.

The food at the chosen restaurant may not be the five-star you get at La Grenouille but it is probably not horrible or the friend who suggested the place would not have chosen it. One can always find something on a menu to satisfy. If it does not blow your skirt up simply eat something else the next day. Food is only with us for about six hours or so. No tragedy there.

Then there are the friends who are staring down in frownful disdain at their delicious Pasta Carbonaro that may be the best ever made. You ask “Are you enjoying your dinner?” They might reply “It’s tolerable.” “Tolerable?” you may ask. “Do you not like it?” “Oh, its ok.” “Then what is the matter?” you ask. “Well, we cook at home.”

What in the world does that mean? We all cook at home. But dining out can be just as, or more satisfying as at home. It is just a meal and it is with friends. Why the fuss? No one is comfortable and most likely in follow-up conversations about that night before that couple will be left out in future.

Then there is the one who does not drink. Most of the time what they meant was they drink at home before going out to save money. Then just do not go out in groups. It is disconcerting when the check comes for everyone to have to take the list to mark what they had, their tax and their gratuity.

I give a lot of successful dinners parties and organize restaurant dinners with interesting friends to make a night of it with great conversation and a plethora of hearty laughs. Let it be that.

The last part of this life lesson for today is this. If someone invites you to be their guest at dinner do not forget to invite them another time soon. I have heard excuses “We cannot afford to take people out.” Really? “Do you go out on your own for dinner?” They answer, well of course. We love going out!” Do the math. If you have been taken to dinner then you did not spend any money at all. Taking them out the next time equals out to an accounting of zero.

We are funny society. My best and most fun times in the world are dinners with intersting friends with differnt ideas who like to share. We laugh and learn and enjoy the culinery delights that bring us joy.

Bon appetite and until next time.

A little less TU TU……

At long last star power returned the stage at Cobb energy Center last Saturday night!

It was untypically dark in the cavernous theatre as a mellow hush came across the small Saturday night crowd. Without fanfare a wash of light quietly skimmed across the floor and dancers appeared from inside long slits in far distant opaque curtains dressed in skin-tight white, as pure as the work would turn out to be.

It has been two years since Atlanta Ballet made a swift reversal in direction, back to clumsy staid ballet that has no place in the wallets of young professionals and hipsters, as the case was until then. The company began to fire people right and left until the last few long-term stars defected, having no desire to step so far into the past.  They had seen the excitement of The Indigo Girls on stage, Big Boi and Outcast with Janelle Monae swinging high above the stage in full voice sporting her then-signature front puff of dark hair. Gone for the most part are the works of master choreographers, Alexander Ekman, Gustavo Ramirez Sansano, Helen Picket, Christopher Wheeldon, Jean Christophe Maillot, Christopher Hamson, and Twyla Tharpe. The list is extensive.

What Atlanta Ballet did under the genius direction of John McFall changed the face and donor power of the mid-sized dance company. What McFall brought to the table was diversity in the looks and shapes of dancers but more importantly, personality.  And the tradition of hierarchy was melted. We all knew who the stars were and so did they. But one never knew who would get the next principal roles. When a newcomer landed a sweet role even the stars celebrated and helped them achieve the success that McFall brought each of them to AB for. There were twenty or more years of joy that one could not miss on each and every face. The programming and that un-mistakable joy is what filled the audience.

Then in an avalanche John McFall resigned (actually, fired). The company was looking for new blood that could keep the momentum going into several more generations. The best answer that was right in front of them was company dancer, star, mentor to all dancers and who had the pulse of the City and the donors in the palm of his talented hand, John Welker.  However he was unceremoniously passed over causing him to make his exit. Principal dancers like Brandon Nguyen, Heath Gill, Sara Havener, and Devon Joslin were not rehired, shocking to all of Atlanta. The unstudied shakeup caused pandemonium among the rest of the company dancers and some of the artistic staff as the most beloved and guiding visionary, Rosemary miles was ejected from her long held position as ballet mistress. To the surprise of the company stars Christian Clark and Rachel Van Buskirk did not sign new contracts and veteran star, Tara Lee retired work on her choreographic career that had been bourgeoning over the past few years. At this time others began jumping ship for new companies all over the world as Alessa Rogers and Kiara Felder left for France and Canada. respectively.  Veteran star Jonah Hopper just went away as did the elegant Coco Mathieson. Benjamin stone saw what was coming as far back as the summer of 2016 and he was successfully landed in Monte Carlo to join the prestigious Ballets des Monte Carlo where he is currently enjoying a remarkable career.

It is not unusual for a new Artistic Director to change up a company of dancers in order to bring his or her direction style to new works. But to create such havoc as happened in Atlanta was in my opinion, unwise. Gone from the stage are the beloved and ultimately talented stars that caused the seats to be filled at every performance and brought the most magic to an iconic Nutcracker for twenty-two years.

Last night in the almost third-empty theatre the audience got what has been missing for a full performance year, “Blink!” The retired Tara Lee, cofounder of the new critically acclaimed Terminus Modern Ballet Theatre brought her choreographic talents back to Atlanta Ballet in the splendid Cobb Energy Center. Her pacing is subtle and exquisite. And she gave us back the dancers we have been missing due to most of their relegation to the core. We were all thrilled to see glorious Nadia Mara resplendent on pointe smiling the genuine smile that has endeared Atlanta audiences to her was back in full force!!! Jackie Nash, always a bright light was even brighter. Ms. Nash has long been a bright star and tonight every muscle, every perfectly pointed finger; the shapes she made in mid air gave me renewed hope that things are not hopeless.  Francesca Loi who is relatively new to AB was among Ms. Lee’s choices as she brought her into the fold of recognizable talent. Ms. Loi is an elegant and light performer and her Italian darkness caused hearts to melt. All of the dancers who stayed behind after the change of dancers were part of “Blink” and Ms. Lee gave them all the recognition they so deserve by spotlighting each one, renewing confidence and joy once again. There is a new emerging male star-quality soloist who was the only new face to this work. Nikolas Gaifullin is stunning! He has the long lean perfect body that makes an audience gasp. There were just enough experienced talent onstage to bring this contemporary lovely work to light.

There were several solos a few pas and one or two groups tossing the lovely ballerinas high into the air and then landed on other expertly outstretched waiting hands. The fluidity of motion in transition from solo to pas to group was as smooth as Egyptian cotton fresh from the loom.

Speaking of light, the amazing strata of light that was created by Joey Walls was some of the finest I have seen in a long time. Mr. Walls used sporadically placed lighting falling in long smoky rays from side front, back and wonderfully from above. It was if each dancer was enveloped in halos. The superb lighting highlighted each dancer bringing excitement and mystery to Tara Lee’s work.

The solo piano played by Di Wu was beautifully haunting with her beautiful Brahms renditions. I do not always like a solo piano but on this occasion it brought me back to rehearsal studios where that is the only instrument for learning steps. This solo work brought the necessary rawness “Blink” deserved. Although the work is titled “Blink” it was a full spectrum experience.

The first work, Tu Tu, brought me no inspiration. I love the new company members and they are fast growing as performers and on their own excellent talent. It was not the dancers that did not bring magic to me. There were just way too many of them in this frenetic work that would have been better served with a cast of eight. There was an array of stick-like gestures, arms in disarray of synchronicity that reminded me of what it must be like to land in Hell, a myriad of hands gesticulating to make their way out of the fire.

I could not stay for the third work, “Minus Sixteen”. It is not the work I did not want to see. After such a perfect experience with “Blink” I did not want to see a superb work that has been changed without the stars I have seen in the past. After Tu Tu I did not want to risk more disappointment.

Leaving in a “Blink” was all I needed to fulfill my artistic heart.

Theatre and Dance – A Little Boy’s Story

 

I have long been a supporter of the arts in every city where I have lived and I can tell you that number is not small!

It all began when I was six years old in Louisville, Kentucky at a time I was courting a favorite Aunt. I was enrolled in a tiny dance school for tiny people. There was simple tap, Shuffle ball tap, and shuffle ball tap only with a teddy bear to the strains of “Me and my Teddy Bear”. Sweet, right?

Amy Grimes was my mother’s just older sister who was not able to bear children and married a highly successful business executive with the L M Berry Company. They were the sole advertisers for the Yellow Pages at the time. Having no children and plenty of disposable income the couple was the height of glamour to all of the nieces and nephews. It was my goal to squeeze in and become her surrogate child.

As soon as I thought I had my dancing and singing role down pat I was ready for the attack. It was Christmas. After a long-winded Mass with a trip to the manger to hear the story of the birth of the baby Jesus that had quite frankly become tedious to me, our Christmas-dressed family went home for breakfast. Christmas breakfast was the longest most trying one of the year. We had every breakfast food that one might find at I-Hop.

There were biscuits and gravy, pancakes and bacon dripping with melted real butter and Maple syrup, eggs, toast, juice, coffee for Dad and tea for mother. In other word enough food to put any kid down for the count. My parents loved irritating us to the point of ruining Christmas. All my two brothers and I wanted was to break into the library and dive into the mounds of gifts we knew instinctively were waiting on the spaces we had each marked with one of Dad’s socks the night before. Instead of elegant glittery embroidered red velvet stockings like all of our cousins had. We each were handed a sock from Dad’s second dresser drawer every Christmas Eve before we solemnly treaded up the stairs to begin the long vigil of avoiding Santa so we would not get left out of the gift business.

The socks were clean we supposed and each of us were surprised how much chocolate Santa’s and snowmen could fit into one of them when properly stretched. There were always tons of Nonpareil and Hershey’s Kisses to fill in the toes and heels. Luckily for our family we discovered no toothbrushes and Ipana Toothpaste, or packages of Johnson & Johnson Band-Aids like other kids got. Who wants practical things for Christmas? Not us!

Once we had all reckoned what gifts went to who (often a large item like a BB gun or a silver Schwinn Racer) would have been hidden by Santa behind a sofa or draperies. We each had to double-check our lists that we made in triplicate, one for Santa, one for the parents and of course, one for us as a checklist. I saved a lot of misplaced gifts using that nifty system over the years that I absolutely knew were mine! So much for the spirit of giving. Better to get than Give was the motto on that day each year.

At long last we boarded the tan and white Ford station wagon that Dad used for his Barber and Beauty Supply business and headed out to the country to have dinner with my mother’s family. We did this every year except one. That one time was a disaster. Dad wanted to have dinner with his own family and wanted to begin the tradition that many families suffer. Go on alternate years to one or the other set of grandparents. We arrived, had a cocktail, well the adults did, we had Coke-Cola. Once the adults were seated at their grand table and we at the children’s table my mother began to cry. Well, more than cry. She actually sobbed. We rose from our respective tables and loaded back into the car for the long trip out to Fern Creek.

This Christmas, the one where I was going to score with this glam-aunt, we went to Grandmother’s. I was prepared and wouldn’t they all be thrilled? I usually pop out of the car so I can go in first. Dad had not taught us too much yet about holding the door for mother first. That would come later. This time I acted like I lost a small truck (I hated trucks) in the cargo space in the rear of the wagon that smelled like bleach and permanent wave lotion. Once they were all inside and I knew they were hugging like they had not just seen each other yesterday, I grabbed Teddy that I had hidden in the space where the third seat folded down. He was a little ruffled but I was able to refresh him by the time I entered the house. I went immediately to the pantry and hid him on a shelf of cans so as not to get him covered in sugar or flour. Then I went and was hugged by everyone too. I liked that. I still do.

Holiday at Grandmothers was always a formal affair. The adults dressed in their finest church wear and we kids were dressed up like department store mannequins with waistcoats, ties, shiny new Buster Browns, little bow ties and long trousers. Really uncomfortable.

In this home there was a large formal dining room with a huge crystal chandelier that was always cleaned and sparkly before any family event. The table was laden with Grandmother’s mother’s and her mother’s silver, extravagant china on silver chargers and crystal goblets. I always thought that was why we kids could not sit at the big table.

Aunt Amy did not disappoint once again. Her wavy lustrous brown hair flecked with gold shiny bits was cut fashionably short and chic. She dressed classically in sleeveless black silk dresses that grazed her knees and she always had a string of real pearls bringing out the soothe grace of her long neck. She probably vacuumed in her black patent leather high heels I thought. But soon I would discover her maid did the vacuuming and not in high heels.

I was a first-string cousin and was seated in the lovely breakfast room with pretty windows and curtains facing onto the back property and the fences that held back the cows on land that Mr. Brown leased from Granddaddy. We usually had snow at Christmas so looking out the back was acceptable. We had a table set with linen, but we got paper napkins. We were given silver forks, salad size, and no knives. Our mothers made plates from the buffet in the dining room and delivered them to us. All the food was cut up child size. So knives would have been moot anyway.

The babies were lined up in a short row of wooden high chairs with animal decals on the seat backs.

As soon as I heard the grownup laughter and chatter subside I knew they had all made it through the buffet and would be seated making a toast or two. I made my move sprightly. Suddenly I was alone, like on a stage under a single spotlight, with paned French glass doors open on either side. The light shone through the tall windows with the lined chintz draperies wide open to let the light in. “Uhm….Uhm” I began. When they all looked up and I had their attention before someone swept me back to the boring cousins I began to do a little soft shoe, pulled Teddy from behind my back where he had been waiting to make his debut and began to rock, tap and sing. “Me and my teddy bear, had no troubles, had no cares, me and my teddy bear jus play and play all day …….” Mother leapt from her Queen Anne side chair and was heading to me saying “Jimmy, honey, now you go back to the table with you brothers and cousins. This is embarrassing”. Then it happened just as I planned. Aunt Amy was afoot almost as quickly as mother” He’s not embarrassing, Mari” as she swept me up and into her arms “he’s precious!” Done. It worked.

From that day forward we were best of friends and that lasted until the day she died at eighty-three. My first foray into theatre had been totally successful. I would have a life long love of the arts and what they could produce forever.

And it is from this point that we begin.